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Tag: mental-health

  • Power and Determination

    Power and determination are not compatible together in the real world.

    As long as an individual has power then he or she could do whatever he or she wants. I disagree with this statement. Having power does not mean an individual can do whatever he or she wants. In the real world, we are living in the human society. Some people are naturally born to become a leader having lots of influences in the society because of networks. These networks are not built in an instant. It requires certain amount of the time to build up; in which it requires several decade and generational efforts to accumulate these foundations. Being able to connect with someone who is influential, is getting the influence on that person’s power. And this would require an individual to invest specific amount of the time to connect with the powerful people. The individual could not be truly autonomous. This is because he or she needs to become the version of the self being able to fit into the powerful people’s perfection as a means of being fit in.

    Being able to connect with the powerful people, or becoming the powerful person. There is a possibility, not requires competences. Being able to fit in the powerful community or the person’s vision, is the concept of being assimilate into the community. The powerful people has the right to define the standard culture.

    Therefore, desire being a powerful power, or getting to become powerful person to connect with the powerful individual. It is not equal to self-determination.

    Determination, is an individual could truly manifest oneself, without regarding what the others’ preconceived notion of the perfection. This is more likely to be the role of artist. Albeit this will enrich an individual intellectual freedom, this also is part of suffering cause the general public culture won’t appreciate. This act of deliberation could potentially challenge the standard culture, that would facilitate a new wave of innovation such as counter culture, awakening innate human soul, stretching the boundary of humanity.

  • How to deal with people?

    Society is a chaotic cultural space. There are all kind of different insane people wondering around on the street. Indeed, I have been working on the trading business, meeting with the people who would put profit as a the first priority, looking through their hungry eyes.

    At first, the people would put lots of efforts showing their emphasize, but not with sincerity. Their words sound very honest, but the reality does not match with the quality of honesty. As an individual, I do feel confuse with these sort of people. The best I would do is setting up the boundary, not letting them to over cross. Having the boundary, establish the protection for myself.

    Are these the people evil?

    No they are not evil, even though they have committed sinful acts such as unethical business practice. Some of these people come from unfortunate background; they have to use an extreme method to achieve their materialistic success without the concern of ethical success. However, the eagerness desire for the materialistic success, would ruin and dim an individual to have short sight without considering the worst consequence such as credit bankrupt and illegal act commitment.

    Furthermore, wanting to develop a good network, needs to have a good focus on self-development. Since an individual has a positive energy to improve his or her characteristic; this would attract the good people to work together. Ascertaining the good principle ground would establish on the good credit base.

    In order to become a spiritual leader, I also need to develop a skill that would improve my value. My goal is keep learning the things are pragmatic, determining a project that would maintain the long term consistency. I establish project and business partnership, that would consider the consequential impact that whether it would continue to reflect the 20-30 years later outcome.

    Why honesty is the best remedy?

    There are people might take an advantage from my honesty, not reciprocal his or her honesty. It is a good thing for me. I can simply to stop to invest my effort to work with these people; and this is also one of the easiest ways to establish a successful community.

    Reading, writing, and speaking, these three are my consistency self-development. As long as I keep these momentum, I will become a little bit smarter everyday.