Holding me Back

Have you ever thought about someone holding you back in a relationship?

It is great to have someone can provide you with emotional supports, indeed material supports. There is no such a thing of free lunch. You eventually need to reciprocal pay back the emotional and material supports. If this cannot maintain a balance, then this is a good relationship. Sometime, getting a relationship means relinquishing some other’s possibility, reducing an individual autonomy being fully autonomous. Life is a funny game. Without the need of being loved by someone, an individual might be able to get lonely heart biologically. In contrary, being in a relationship, will lose the autonomy. This is because he or she needs to invest some of the efforts to maintain the balance for the others.

Relationship is a source of business.

Sometime, it is important to take a sharp mindset to decide whether this is a game to play.

I keep doubting all the time ……….